1 00:00:01,465 --> 00:00:04,099 (vehicle swooshing) 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 3 00:00:04,099 --> 00:00:07,266 (soft laidback music) 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 5 00:00:09,210 --> 00:00:13,083 - We had about 170 people in last night. 6 00:00:15,390 --> 00:00:18,873 So they were queuing up like they were waiting for a bus. 7 00:00:22,350 --> 00:00:23,849 Not unusual. 8 00:00:23,849 --> 00:00:27,849 (soft laidback music continues) 9 00:00:29,490 --> 00:00:32,130 Oh God, they've moved the bed. 10 00:00:32,130 --> 00:00:33,033 The bed's moved. 11 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,373 Oh, I'm gonna have to do it with some gloves. 12 00:00:39,862 --> 00:00:43,260 It is not nice picking up other people's used items, 13 00:00:43,260 --> 00:00:46,173 but this is all part of the job. 14 00:00:47,140 --> 00:00:49,723 (sultry music) 15 00:00:59,491 --> 00:01:02,040 (phone rings) 16 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:03,930 Liberty Elite, can I help you? 17 00:01:03,930 --> 00:01:06,390 - [NARRATOR] It's February at Liberty Elite, 18 00:01:06,390 --> 00:01:10,110 one of Britain's most exclusive swinging and fetish clubs. 19 00:01:10,110 --> 00:01:11,611 - [SPEAKER] I've noticed that you have 20 00:01:11,611 --> 00:01:12,897 a St Andrew's cross and a spanking bench. 21 00:01:12,897 --> 00:01:14,280 - We don't put them out 22 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,070 unless we've got somebody there to supervise. 23 00:01:17,070 --> 00:01:19,560 - [NARRATOR] Boasting over 12,000 members, 24 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,590 it's the go-to place for non-monogamous couples 25 00:01:22,590 --> 00:01:26,433 and randy singles craving no-string sex with strangers. 26 00:01:28,740 --> 00:01:31,350 Located just off the A5 near Rugby, 27 00:01:31,350 --> 00:01:34,053 the club attracts up to 200 guests a night, 28 00:01:35,430 --> 00:01:38,673 which means a substantial cleanup job for the staff. 29 00:01:39,870 --> 00:01:40,800 - [DIANE] It's a lot of bedding. 30 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,610 250 towels, 60 sheets, 31 00:01:44,610 --> 00:01:46,060 but you just keep it rolling. 32 00:01:48,150 --> 00:01:50,340 40 degrees again. 33 00:01:50,340 --> 00:01:52,433 - [PRODUCER] What do you think is on all these towels? 34 00:01:54,690 --> 00:01:55,683 - Body fluid. 35 00:01:56,910 --> 00:01:59,400 It's no different from changing your own beds, is it? 36 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,110 The only thing is you've got probably 37 00:02:01,110 --> 00:02:03,951 an accumulation of different DNA. 38 00:02:03,951 --> 00:02:06,061 (bouncy music) 39 00:02:06,061 --> 00:02:07,833 Oh dear, missed one. 40 00:02:09,986 --> 00:02:12,086 They get caught up in the towels and that. 41 00:02:13,500 --> 00:02:16,560 We cater for all age groups. 42 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,320 Mature Mischief, which is Wednesday. 43 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,950 And then you've got the younger crowd, hot wives. 44 00:02:22,950 --> 00:02:24,690 But all the people are great. 45 00:02:24,690 --> 00:02:25,980 Some of them are that nice. 46 00:02:25,980 --> 00:02:27,780 They're as nice as the people you meet 47 00:02:27,780 --> 00:02:30,423 going to ASDA or Morrisons. 48 00:02:32,430 --> 00:02:34,950 - [NARRATOR] Wife swapping became popular in the late '60s. 49 00:02:34,950 --> 00:02:38,580 And today there are over 1.5 million Brits on the scene 50 00:02:38,580 --> 00:02:40,893 desperate to spice up their sex lives. 51 00:02:42,150 --> 00:02:44,100 - [JOHN] Come on, let's get this right. 52 00:02:45,703 --> 00:02:48,000 - [NARRATOR] Cashing in on our erotic desires 53 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,693 is Liberty's head honcho, 78-year-old John. 54 00:02:53,220 --> 00:02:55,200 - I don't drink. I don't smoke. 55 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,753 I've been divorced since 1974. 56 00:02:58,860 --> 00:03:01,620 The two main hobbies in my life, 57 00:03:01,620 --> 00:03:03,480 one is making money, 58 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,660 and the other one, of course, is young ladies, or ladies, 59 00:03:06,660 --> 00:03:08,777 which I'm very passionate about. 60 00:03:08,777 --> 00:03:11,360 (jovial music) 61 00:03:12,869 --> 00:03:16,860 I've been on the swingers scene since the late 1960s. 62 00:03:16,860 --> 00:03:20,973 20 years ago, this complete building was up for sale. 63 00:03:21,810 --> 00:03:23,280 I bought it. 64 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,503 I've probably spent 1.5 million on it. 65 00:03:27,210 --> 00:03:28,410 - [NARRATOR] Liberty is one 66 00:03:28,410 --> 00:03:31,470 of over 200 swingers clubs in the UK, 67 00:03:31,470 --> 00:03:34,470 all vying to be number one for the discerning swinger. 68 00:03:34,470 --> 00:03:39,470 - We try and have equipment that people don't have at home. 69 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:41,910 This sort of thing is quite difficult 70 00:03:41,910 --> 00:03:43,710 to explain to the family, 71 00:03:43,710 --> 00:03:47,580 but the lady would be lying just with her legs 72 00:03:47,580 --> 00:03:51,240 sort of resting gently and just relaxing. 73 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,300 It moves with you. Nice rocking movement. 74 00:03:54,300 --> 00:03:56,093 - [PRODUCER] Have you ever used this? 75 00:03:57,630 --> 00:03:58,923 - Only a few times. 76 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,393 We're going into the main play area. 77 00:04:04,750 --> 00:04:07,770 The first time I swung 50 years ago, 78 00:04:07,770 --> 00:04:09,690 we were at a house party. 79 00:04:09,690 --> 00:04:11,400 People started pairing off, 80 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,023 and we thought, "Well, okay, let's pair off." 81 00:04:15,023 --> 00:04:18,813 And we did and it works wonder for your sex life. 82 00:04:20,550 --> 00:04:25,230 What I designed here is there's two sliders 83 00:04:25,230 --> 00:04:27,030 so that what you can do, 84 00:04:27,030 --> 00:04:31,020 you can restrain someone using those 85 00:04:31,020 --> 00:04:34,023 and turn them over without having to release them. 86 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:36,420 Okay. 87 00:04:36,420 --> 00:04:37,740 - [PRODUCER] How often do you have sex? 88 00:04:37,740 --> 00:04:39,030 - Oh gosh. 89 00:04:39,030 --> 00:04:41,640 I'm down to perhaps two or three times a week now, 90 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:42,603 but no more. 91 00:04:45,150 --> 00:04:47,640 Swinging is a way of life. 92 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:51,330 I'm not sure anybody was designed to have sex 93 00:04:51,330 --> 00:04:54,815 with just one person for the whole of their life. 94 00:04:54,815 --> 00:04:56,815 (music) 95 00:04:59,010 --> 00:05:00,390 - Nice, isn't it? 96 00:05:00,390 --> 00:05:02,130 - I hate Valentine's Day. 97 00:05:02,130 --> 00:05:03,750 One of the worst things in the world. 98 00:05:03,750 --> 00:05:05,190 - [MARTYN] Oh, it's nice. 99 00:05:05,190 --> 00:05:07,470 - [CHANELLE] Stop being so soppy. 100 00:05:07,470 --> 00:05:09,120 - [NARRATOR] At least twice a week, 101 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,010 the club hosts themed events. 102 00:05:11,010 --> 00:05:12,780 - Yeah, that looks nice, doesn't it? 103 00:05:12,780 --> 00:05:15,900 Receptionist Cherri and club manager Chanelle 104 00:05:15,900 --> 00:05:16,980 are busy preparing 105 00:05:16,980 --> 00:05:19,800 for one of their biggest nights of the year, 106 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,120 Valentine's. 107 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,280 - All of our events are a big deal. 108 00:05:23,280 --> 00:05:25,620 It's just nice to make an effort. 109 00:05:25,620 --> 00:05:27,360 That is vile. 110 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:28,770 What is it? 111 00:05:28,770 --> 00:05:33,333 We try and cater for everybody from all walks of life, 112 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:36,303 couples, 113 00:05:39,303 --> 00:05:41,160 your single guys, 114 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:42,243 single ladies. 115 00:05:43,860 --> 00:05:45,093 Everyone's got needs. 116 00:05:47,190 --> 00:05:49,038 - [PRODUCER] When was the last time you had sex? 117 00:05:49,038 --> 00:05:51,480 - Oh, a good couple of months ago. 118 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,100 Because I know this event is coming up, 119 00:05:53,100 --> 00:05:56,100 and I know I'm just gonna get fucked left, right and center. 120 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,370 - People get the wrong perception 121 00:05:59,370 --> 00:06:00,960 of the people that attend this club. 122 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,790 It's just normal, everyday people. 123 00:06:02,790 --> 00:06:04,200 It's just that they choose 124 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,783 to do something different with their social life. 125 00:06:10,170 --> 00:06:13,593 - This one has been inside Hannah's vagina. 126 00:06:15,300 --> 00:06:16,620 - [PRODUCER] Why are you holding it that way round? 127 00:06:16,620 --> 00:06:18,134 - Because that's the way it went. 128 00:06:18,134 --> 00:06:19,870 (Hannah laughs) 129 00:06:19,870 --> 00:06:22,453 (upbeat music) 130 00:06:27,300 --> 00:06:30,330 - [NARRATOR] Engineer Justin and stay-at-home-mom Hannah 131 00:06:30,330 --> 00:06:32,103 live with their two young children. 132 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,910 - [HANNAH] We met about seven years ago, 133 00:06:35,910 --> 00:06:38,850 and when I was actually pregnant with my second child, 134 00:06:38,850 --> 00:06:41,610 food cravings didn't happen for me. 135 00:06:41,610 --> 00:06:44,223 I got more sexual cravings instead. 136 00:06:45,496 --> 00:06:47,527 I just turned around to Justin and was like, 137 00:06:47,527 --> 00:06:50,487 "I fancy having a third person in the bedroom department." 138 00:06:51,990 --> 00:06:53,430 - After we had kids, 139 00:06:53,430 --> 00:06:56,793 the frequency that we had sex did go down quite a bit. 140 00:06:59,670 --> 00:07:02,301 - [NARRATOR] Like many knew onto the scene, 141 00:07:02,301 --> 00:07:03,600 the pair joined a partner swapping website 142 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,790 to find their first hookup. 143 00:07:05,790 --> 00:07:08,220 - Started off with single female. 144 00:07:08,220 --> 00:07:10,140 She came over for some pizza 145 00:07:10,140 --> 00:07:11,697 and just sort of evolved from that. 146 00:07:11,697 --> 00:07:13,353 - And we made him sit and watch. 147 00:07:14,790 --> 00:07:17,010 - I think they were going at it together 148 00:07:17,010 --> 00:07:20,730 for a good hour or so. 149 00:07:20,730 --> 00:07:23,330 Every time I came near, they pushed me away. 150 00:07:23,330 --> 00:07:25,072 - I did want him to get involved, 151 00:07:25,072 --> 00:07:27,310 but I thought I'm having my fun first. 152 00:07:27,310 --> 00:07:28,980 - I did feel a bit left out, yeah, 153 00:07:28,980 --> 00:07:31,063 because for the majority of the night, 154 00:07:31,063 --> 00:07:32,610 I wasn't able to do anything. 155 00:07:32,610 --> 00:07:35,250 The couple's situation is more suitable for us 156 00:07:35,250 --> 00:07:37,893 because then we both get something out of it. 157 00:07:42,510 --> 00:07:44,850 - I've always been self-conscious of my body. 158 00:07:44,850 --> 00:07:47,550 I've felt overweight, unattractive. 159 00:07:47,550 --> 00:07:50,013 I'm just not a very confident person. 160 00:07:51,630 --> 00:07:55,080 I was never one of the popular kids. 161 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:56,730 I used to get bullied in school. 162 00:07:56,730 --> 00:07:59,250 They used to pull my hair, laugh at me. 163 00:07:59,250 --> 00:08:02,752 They used to think that I was a bit of a nerd. 164 00:08:02,752 --> 00:08:04,263 It wasn't a really fun time. 165 00:08:05,190 --> 00:08:07,920 When Justin tells me that I look beautiful, 166 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,820 it just doesn't feel like it's enough. 167 00:08:10,786 --> 00:08:13,260 Our relationship would have survived if he had said no, 168 00:08:13,260 --> 00:08:15,150 because obviously, you know, 169 00:08:15,150 --> 00:08:16,680 you have feelings for that person 170 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,410 and you take their feelings into consideration. 171 00:08:19,410 --> 00:08:22,057 But I want other people to look at me and think, 172 00:08:22,057 --> 00:08:24,810 "Wow, she looks really sexy" 173 00:08:24,810 --> 00:08:26,623 to make me feel that I've still got it 174 00:08:26,623 --> 00:08:28,653 even after having children. 175 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,420 - [NARRATOR] After two years of swinging from home, 176 00:08:33,420 --> 00:08:36,600 the party will be their first visit to a club. 177 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,298 - [JUSTIN] So what are we taking then? 178 00:08:38,298 --> 00:08:40,350 - [HANNAH] I got great deal too on them. 179 00:08:40,350 --> 00:08:41,792 - [JUSTIN] Probably gonna come off 180 00:08:41,792 --> 00:08:42,625 by the end of the night anyway. 181 00:08:42,625 --> 00:08:43,833 If not by me, by someone else. 182 00:08:45,491 --> 00:08:47,190 (dog yaps) 183 00:08:47,190 --> 00:08:48,117 This Valentine's Day we're gonna go 184 00:08:48,117 --> 00:08:50,610 and have sex with a load of other people. 185 00:08:50,610 --> 00:08:52,010 What could be more romantic? 186 00:08:53,130 --> 00:08:54,120 - [HANNAH] Having sex with other people, 187 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:55,860 it gives me a thrill. 188 00:08:55,860 --> 00:08:58,230 The more that I go down the swinging route, 189 00:08:58,230 --> 00:09:00,780 the more I can be the woman I want to be. 190 00:09:00,780 --> 00:09:01,860 You'll never be fully happy 191 00:09:01,860 --> 00:09:04,931 until you've fulfilled needs and stuff. 192 00:09:04,931 --> 00:09:07,764 (energetic music) 193 00:09:09,300 --> 00:09:11,700 - We do provide a good spread. 194 00:09:11,700 --> 00:09:13,440 We do a selection of sandwiches. 195 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:16,350 Smoked salmon and prawn ring. 196 00:09:16,350 --> 00:09:17,673 No expense spared. 197 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:20,111 - [CHANELLE] Yeah, that looks good. 198 00:09:20,111 --> 00:09:21,570 - [MARTYN] Yeah, yeah. 199 00:09:21,570 --> 00:09:23,460 - When John first opened this club, 200 00:09:23,460 --> 00:09:25,830 there weren't a lot of swingers clubs around. 201 00:09:25,830 --> 00:09:28,620 Now, there's probably one in every town. 202 00:09:28,620 --> 00:09:30,300 Some people might not even realize 203 00:09:30,300 --> 00:09:32,050 that there's one on their doorstep. 204 00:09:33,900 --> 00:09:36,343 - Try to eat your heart out. 205 00:09:36,343 --> 00:09:39,260 (intriguing music) 206 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,740 - [NARRATOR] To help stand out in a crowded market, 207 00:09:43,740 --> 00:09:46,890 the club boasts 12, four-star hotel rooms, 208 00:09:46,890 --> 00:09:49,443 which guests can stay in for 60 quid a night. 209 00:09:50,850 --> 00:09:52,980 - I didn't think I would be somewhere 210 00:09:52,980 --> 00:09:55,110 like here for Valentine's. 211 00:09:55,110 --> 00:09:56,670 Not that I'm complaining. 212 00:09:56,670 --> 00:09:58,170 I've come alone because I can just do 213 00:09:58,170 --> 00:10:00,444 what the hell I want when I want. 214 00:10:00,444 --> 00:10:02,460 We're all here to have a bloody good time 215 00:10:02,460 --> 00:10:03,810 and maybe a good fuck. 216 00:10:03,810 --> 00:10:04,683 I don't know. 217 00:10:06,060 --> 00:10:08,161 That's what I'm here for. 218 00:10:08,161 --> 00:10:10,744 (bouncy music) 219 00:10:20,357 --> 00:10:24,210 - Men, don't want one. Haven't got time for one. 220 00:10:24,210 --> 00:10:27,361 I haven't met a decent one in 33 years. 221 00:10:27,361 --> 00:10:29,520 (bouncy music continues) 222 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,130 - [NARRATOR] Single mum Malika works as a dancer 223 00:10:32,130 --> 00:10:34,110 to support her young daughter. 224 00:10:34,110 --> 00:10:36,120 - I have trust issues 225 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,606 because I've been treated so shit by men. 226 00:10:38,606 --> 00:10:39,990 Do you know what I mean? 227 00:10:39,990 --> 00:10:43,773 When damage is done and trust is broken, 228 00:10:44,940 --> 00:10:47,433 you lose trust in everyone really. 229 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,340 - [NARRATOR] Since a messy breakup, 230 00:10:50,340 --> 00:10:54,150 Malika has turned her back on relationships. 231 00:10:54,150 --> 00:10:56,820 - Maybe if I've been treated like a princess all my life, 232 00:10:56,820 --> 00:10:58,140 I wouldn't feel like I just want 233 00:10:58,140 --> 00:10:59,883 to use and abuse him all the time. 234 00:11:01,260 --> 00:11:04,650 I was in a full on relationship way too young. 235 00:11:04,650 --> 00:11:06,513 I was with him for 10 years. 236 00:11:07,470 --> 00:11:10,923 He was always controlling, possessive. 237 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,450 My dream was to be a professional dancer. 238 00:11:15,450 --> 00:11:18,030 He was holding me back from my dreams. 239 00:11:18,030 --> 00:11:20,730 When I found out he was cheating on me, 240 00:11:20,730 --> 00:11:22,893 I packed our stuff and never went back. 241 00:11:27,450 --> 00:11:29,760 Now I call the shots. 242 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:34,053 Lap dancing makes you feel strong, sexy. 243 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,800 I love the power I have over men. 244 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,033 It's quite a turn on. 245 00:11:43,290 --> 00:11:44,880 When you're at a swinging party, 246 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,730 it's a really free vibe. 247 00:11:47,730 --> 00:11:51,090 If it's there on a plate, I'm just gonna go for it. 248 00:11:51,090 --> 00:11:52,203 Why the hell not? 249 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:55,740 - [JUSTIN] I know I'd like to see you enjoying yourself. 250 00:11:55,740 --> 00:11:58,153 - With guys and girls or just girls? 251 00:11:58,153 --> 00:11:58,986 - Whichever you want. 252 00:11:58,986 --> 00:12:00,660 Whichever takes you fancy. 253 00:12:00,660 --> 00:12:02,783 - It sounds like an experience is gonna happen. 254 00:12:08,558 --> 00:12:11,943 (vehicle swooshing) 255 00:12:11,943 --> 00:12:12,776 - Right. 256 00:12:14,070 --> 00:12:15,900 - [NARRATOR] It's the day of the Valentine's party 257 00:12:15,900 --> 00:12:17,310 at Liberty Elite, 258 00:12:17,310 --> 00:12:20,100 Britain's premier swinging and fetish club. 259 00:12:20,100 --> 00:12:21,510 - Happy Valentine's Day. 260 00:12:21,510 --> 00:12:23,827 - I've gone all out, haven't I? 261 00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:25,627 - [JOHN] I can see what's been done. 262 00:12:26,490 --> 00:12:27,940 I'll go switch everything on. 263 00:12:30,270 --> 00:12:32,610 - [NARRATOR] Tonight, eager guests are arriving 264 00:12:32,610 --> 00:12:34,560 from across the country in search 265 00:12:34,560 --> 00:12:37,200 of some fun between the sheets. 266 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,730 - Very sexy. 267 00:12:38,730 --> 00:12:42,510 - [JOHN] The swingers community is quite substantial. 268 00:12:42,510 --> 00:12:44,730 On your street, there will be somebody 269 00:12:44,730 --> 00:12:45,830 in the swingers scene. 270 00:12:47,100 --> 00:12:48,090 - [NARRATOR] For seasoned swingers 271 00:12:48,090 --> 00:12:51,630 and husband and wife of 13 years Simon and Carolyn, 272 00:12:51,630 --> 00:12:53,613 it's their second visit to Liberty. 273 00:12:55,260 --> 00:12:57,990 - Swinging cannot save a marriage 274 00:12:57,990 --> 00:13:01,140 that is on the downhill path, 275 00:13:01,140 --> 00:13:04,053 but it can make a good relationship better. 276 00:13:05,730 --> 00:13:07,050 - Some people might think this is an odd way 277 00:13:07,050 --> 00:13:08,520 to spend Valentine's Day, 278 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,083 but we're not ordinary people. 279 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,050 - This is more of a roll of the dice. 280 00:13:13,050 --> 00:13:14,430 We don't have to play if we don't want to. 281 00:13:14,430 --> 00:13:16,971 And it's nice to kind of be picky really a bit. 282 00:13:16,971 --> 00:13:17,804 - [CAROLYN] Yeah. - [SIMON] Yeah. 283 00:13:17,804 --> 00:13:18,960 - I'm sharing my husband with people. 284 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:20,640 It's like lending your car out to someone. 285 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,440 You wouldn't just let any old stranger 286 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,140 like drive around the block in it. 287 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:32,400 I told him I was bisexual really early on 288 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,533 to make him aware of things 289 00:13:34,533 --> 00:13:37,647 that I don't think I'd be ever prepared to let go of. 290 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:42,000 I didn't wanna get to like my old age 291 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,740 and not ever have lived. 292 00:13:43,740 --> 00:13:47,130 - It was when my mom sadly passed away a few years ago, 293 00:13:47,130 --> 00:13:50,040 that really impacted me because my mom loved life, 294 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:52,050 and we just really felt that it was important 295 00:13:52,050 --> 00:13:53,280 to live life to the most. 296 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,740 Why not try different things and see how it feels? 297 00:13:55,740 --> 00:13:56,970 - He wouldn't share a pizza, 298 00:13:56,970 --> 00:13:59,880 so nothing took me by surprise more than you agreeing 299 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:01,830 to have a go at that kind of lifestyle. 300 00:14:04,050 --> 00:14:05,310 - [PRODUCER] So did you just get into swinging 301 00:14:05,310 --> 00:14:06,437 because you were worried 302 00:14:06,437 --> 00:14:08,553 about Carolyn running off with a woman? 303 00:14:08,553 --> 00:14:10,380 - No. No, not at all. 304 00:14:10,380 --> 00:14:12,960 I was possibly the most jealous person 305 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,060 that I've met before this scene. 306 00:14:15,060 --> 00:14:16,800 You'd never know what's gonna make you jealous though. 307 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,690 And sometimes it can just be a kiss. 308 00:14:18,690 --> 00:14:20,100 Sometimes it could be your wife 309 00:14:20,100 --> 00:14:23,820 just wants to fuck someone with a massive cock. 310 00:14:23,820 --> 00:14:25,920 But actually it was really enjoyable. 311 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:26,940 More than having sex, 312 00:14:26,940 --> 00:14:28,690 it was about building a connection. 313 00:14:29,576 --> 00:14:30,627 - [PRODUCER] Are you sure? 314 00:14:30,627 --> 00:14:32,210 - Yeah, quite sure. 315 00:14:33,837 --> 00:14:36,780 - [NARRATOR] The couple got onto the scene four years ago, 316 00:14:36,780 --> 00:14:39,060 and they're members of a wife swapping website 317 00:14:39,060 --> 00:14:41,853 boosting over 200,000 users. 318 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,167 - So we've had a new message. 319 00:14:44,167 --> 00:14:47,400 "I'm 38. I love teasing females. 320 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:49,230 I can, but not essential, 321 00:14:49,230 --> 00:14:52,140 tie, restrain, and tease their pussy and ass 322 00:14:52,140 --> 00:14:54,210 until they have multiple orgasms. 323 00:14:54,210 --> 00:14:56,097 Even better if they can squirt." 324 00:14:58,800 --> 00:14:59,790 Interested? 325 00:14:59,790 --> 00:15:03,600 No, we like someone that has read about what we're into, 326 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:04,740 what we're interested in. 327 00:15:04,740 --> 00:15:06,210 They can actually use English. 328 00:15:06,210 --> 00:15:08,130 Full stops, commas, you know, 329 00:15:08,130 --> 00:15:10,473 semicolon would be orgasmic. 330 00:15:12,281 --> 00:15:14,781 (funky music) 331 00:15:20,820 --> 00:15:23,310 - Yeah, it should be okay I think. 332 00:15:23,310 --> 00:15:24,270 - [NARRATOR] There's an hour to go 333 00:15:24,270 --> 00:15:25,953 before the party kicks off. 334 00:15:27,210 --> 00:15:28,803 - Okay, I'm happy with that. 335 00:15:29,910 --> 00:15:33,060 - [NARRATOR] And the guests are dressing to impress. 336 00:15:33,060 --> 00:15:35,643 - [MALIKA] It's time for mum to have her playtime. 337 00:15:37,830 --> 00:15:38,877 - [SIMON] Wow. - All right? 338 00:15:38,877 --> 00:15:43,020 - [SIMON] You look lovely. - Ta-da. 339 00:15:43,020 --> 00:15:44,356 - [HANNAH] That looks stupid there. 340 00:15:44,356 --> 00:15:46,080 - No, it doesn't. It looks good. 341 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:47,670 - [NARRATOR] For partners of seven years, 342 00:15:47,670 --> 00:15:50,610 Justin and Hannah tonight will be their first time 343 00:15:50,610 --> 00:15:52,230 inside a swingers club. 344 00:15:52,230 --> 00:15:53,063 - You never know. 345 00:15:53,063 --> 00:15:55,244 There might be a couple that we can join. 346 00:15:55,244 --> 00:15:56,130 - [HANNAH] Yeah. 347 00:15:56,130 --> 00:15:59,010 - It can be quite daunting for first timers. 348 00:15:59,010 --> 00:16:02,460 It's exactly the same as visiting your local tennis club. 349 00:16:02,460 --> 00:16:03,570 When you first go in, 350 00:16:03,570 --> 00:16:06,600 you wonder who you're gonna have a game of tennis with, 351 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,270 who to have a drink with and what to do. 352 00:16:09,270 --> 00:16:10,103 - [JUSTIN] You ready? 353 00:16:10,103 --> 00:16:12,213 - I'm as ready as I'll have a be. 354 00:16:13,184 --> 00:16:14,770 - Let's go. 355 00:16:14,770 --> 00:16:17,520 (exciting music) 356 00:16:19,585 --> 00:16:22,089 - Everything's fine. Good. 357 00:16:22,089 --> 00:16:25,672 (exciting music continues) 358 00:16:33,046 --> 00:16:35,627 Come on in. Welcome to the club. 359 00:16:35,627 --> 00:16:37,473 Please be aware of the step. 360 00:16:38,911 --> 00:16:40,950 (exciting music continues) 361 00:16:40,950 --> 00:16:41,910 - [NARRATOR] To ensure the club 362 00:16:41,910 --> 00:16:44,190 brings in suitable clientele, 363 00:16:44,190 --> 00:16:46,140 guests are vetted before they arrive 364 00:16:46,140 --> 00:16:48,510 and couples pay a 20 pound a year membership 365 00:16:48,510 --> 00:16:50,190 as well as an entry fee. 366 00:16:50,190 --> 00:16:53,130 - We welcome people from all walks, 367 00:16:53,130 --> 00:16:55,620 but they have to be quite nice. 368 00:16:55,620 --> 00:16:57,600 And I don't mean particularly attractive, 369 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,780 I just mean they have to be nice people. 370 00:17:00,780 --> 00:17:02,909 - [PRODUCER] Does it help if they're attractive? 371 00:17:02,909 --> 00:17:04,560 - Well, I think in all walks of life 372 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:06,240 it helps if you're attractive. 373 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:07,263 Come on, guys. 374 00:17:11,039 --> 00:17:12,039 - Thank you. 375 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:16,890 - People do have a misconception 376 00:17:16,890 --> 00:17:20,070 of what a swingers club is like. 377 00:17:20,070 --> 00:17:22,953 Dirty old men just perving over women. 378 00:17:25,740 --> 00:17:27,660 They're quite surprised when they walk straight 379 00:17:27,660 --> 00:17:29,673 into a posh wine bar. 380 00:17:30,650 --> 00:17:33,990 (Simon and Carolyn chatter) 381 00:17:33,990 --> 00:17:36,180 - [NARRATOR] It may look like a swanky wine bar, 382 00:17:36,180 --> 00:17:38,490 but for those who play their cards right, 383 00:17:38,490 --> 00:17:39,600 a few hours from now, 384 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:43,389 they could be having sex with a beautiful stranger. 385 00:17:43,389 --> 00:17:45,180 - Now, before we go through to the playroom, 386 00:17:45,180 --> 00:17:48,360 just so you know, we don't allow you in there fully clothed. 387 00:17:48,360 --> 00:17:49,883 You look like you're panicking and don't panic. 388 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:54,120 Underwear is fine. Just not fully clothed. 389 00:17:54,120 --> 00:17:56,730 I don't swing. It's just not for me. 390 00:17:56,730 --> 00:17:59,370 I couldn't imagine seeing my partner with somebody else. 391 00:17:59,370 --> 00:18:02,627 I'd be more likely to punch him than anything else. 392 00:18:02,627 --> 00:18:05,210 (gentle music) 393 00:18:06,420 --> 00:18:08,040 - [HANNAH] Something strong. 394 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:10,623 - [JUSTIN] Can I get a Jameson and lemonade please. 395 00:18:11,490 --> 00:18:13,470 Can't beat a good Irish whiskey. 396 00:18:13,470 --> 00:18:15,270 - You can when it comes more bubbly. 397 00:18:17,250 --> 00:18:18,510 - [JUSTIN] I'm not much of a rum fan. 398 00:18:18,510 --> 00:18:20,510 - My fun ambition is to be a pirate, so. 399 00:18:21,930 --> 00:18:23,080 - It's a good ambition. 400 00:18:26,190 --> 00:18:27,640 - [HANNAH] That guy was cute. 401 00:18:29,914 --> 00:18:32,132 Is it bad I'm actually a bit scared? 402 00:18:32,132 --> 00:18:33,549 - You'll be fine. 403 00:18:36,003 --> 00:18:38,100 - I do get nervous meeting new people. 404 00:18:38,100 --> 00:18:41,040 I worry about whether they're gonna be interested in me. 405 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,993 I just want to make a good impression. 406 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,160 - [NARRATOR] For some, club nights are an opportunity 407 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:51,030 to satisfy an insatiable appetite for sex. 408 00:18:51,030 --> 00:18:54,240 - We do have some ladies that go to the extreme. 409 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:57,753 I do know one lady that's had 18 in a night. 410 00:18:58,620 --> 00:19:02,340 Don't ask me how because I have absolutely no idea. 411 00:19:02,340 --> 00:19:03,990 Eighteens rather a lot, isn't it? 412 00:19:07,154 --> 00:19:09,390 - [SHAVONNE] Can I come and say hello to you guys? 413 00:19:09,390 --> 00:19:12,120 - [NARRATOR] 67-year-old Shavonne has been on the scene 414 00:19:12,120 --> 00:19:13,593 for the past 10 years. 415 00:19:14,940 --> 00:19:16,473 - I wish my dear, I wish. 416 00:19:18,570 --> 00:19:19,833 No, I'm just visiting. 417 00:19:21,450 --> 00:19:23,970 This is different to the ones I normally go to. 418 00:19:23,970 --> 00:19:25,770 - Yeah, the jacuzzi, I worry about that. 419 00:19:25,770 --> 00:19:26,755 You know what I mean? 420 00:19:26,755 --> 00:19:28,770 That's why I go in there now before the cum starts. 421 00:19:28,770 --> 00:19:30,433 - Just don't swallow anything. 422 00:19:30,433 --> 00:19:31,770 (people laughing) 423 00:19:31,770 --> 00:19:33,563 Plenty of sucking, but no swallowing. 424 00:19:36,072 --> 00:19:38,572 (chill music) 425 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:47,013 Valentine's Day, it's lovely for me being a florist, 426 00:19:47,013 --> 00:19:48,570 because I can make money, 427 00:19:48,570 --> 00:19:52,173 but personally it passes me by like Christmas. 428 00:19:54,090 --> 00:19:55,680 - [NARRATOR] Having never settled down, 429 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,680 Shavonne has lived alone for much of her life. 430 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,860 - Nice and firm, just as we like it. 431 00:20:01,860 --> 00:20:05,100 One reason why I might not have married is that 432 00:20:05,100 --> 00:20:07,593 I think I might get bored just with one person. 433 00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:10,260 - [PRODUCER] When was the last time 434 00:20:10,260 --> 00:20:12,060 someone bought you flowers? 435 00:20:12,060 --> 00:20:13,503 - A few weeks ago actually. 436 00:20:14,539 --> 00:20:16,050 A friend of mine came round 437 00:20:16,050 --> 00:20:20,370 with a nice bunch of lilies for an inspection. 438 00:20:20,370 --> 00:20:21,390 - [PRODUCER] What's an inspection? 439 00:20:21,390 --> 00:20:24,123 - Basically to check out the size of his cock. 440 00:20:26,700 --> 00:20:29,993 Right, come on then. 441 00:20:29,993 --> 00:20:31,560 This is my playroom. 442 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:32,880 Bigger the better. 443 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,993 I invite lots of butt boys to come round and play. 444 00:20:37,837 --> 00:20:39,483 One there and one here, 445 00:20:40,380 --> 00:20:42,267 one in the middle and one there, 446 00:20:42,267 --> 00:20:44,799 and then one over there and one there. 447 00:20:44,799 --> 00:20:46,449 And then we'd have two at the end 448 00:20:48,780 --> 00:20:50,550 watching and wanking probably. 449 00:20:50,550 --> 00:20:52,230 And then we all swap round. 450 00:20:52,230 --> 00:20:54,843 I just love watching them suck each other's cocks. 451 00:20:56,250 --> 00:20:57,083 Oh. 452 00:20:57,930 --> 00:20:58,830 When I first did this, 453 00:20:58,830 --> 00:21:01,350 I couldn't believe that a 20-year-old 454 00:21:01,350 --> 00:21:04,983 would wanna have sex with a 60-something-year-old. 455 00:21:06,750 --> 00:21:07,583 But they do. 456 00:21:08,787 --> 00:21:10,950 And I'm happy to oblige. 457 00:21:10,950 --> 00:21:12,330 - [PRODUCER] Do you think sex would be better 458 00:21:12,330 --> 00:21:13,860 if you were in love? 459 00:21:13,860 --> 00:21:17,460 - Possibly, but then it could also be boring. 460 00:21:17,460 --> 00:21:20,403 Would I choose to be swinging or in an unhappy marriage? 461 00:21:21,300 --> 00:21:23,553 No question, is it? Swinging. 462 00:21:25,380 --> 00:21:26,853 One big bag of toys. 463 00:21:28,350 --> 00:21:30,060 This is probably my biggest 464 00:21:30,060 --> 00:21:32,397 that goes up the guy's bum and that goes inside me. 465 00:21:32,397 --> 00:21:35,010 Now not many guys can take that. 466 00:21:35,010 --> 00:21:38,253 The most sessions I've had in a day would be three or four. 467 00:21:40,140 --> 00:21:42,273 Breakfast, lunch, tea, 468 00:21:44,340 --> 00:21:46,221 and possibly even supper. 469 00:21:46,221 --> 00:21:49,590 (playful music) 470 00:21:49,590 --> 00:21:52,187 It won't turn off. (laughs) 471 00:21:53,212 --> 00:21:56,610 I'll have to use it then, won't I? 472 00:21:56,610 --> 00:21:58,170 I would be disappointed 473 00:21:58,170 --> 00:22:00,720 if I didn't play with one person at least, 474 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,370 but I would be very happy 475 00:22:02,370 --> 00:22:04,740 if I sucked his cock, he licked my pussy, 476 00:22:04,740 --> 00:22:08,893 he shot his load, and I had multiple orgasms. Perfect. 477 00:22:08,893 --> 00:22:09,726 - [SPEAKER] What's your name? 478 00:22:09,726 --> 00:22:10,643 - Shavonne. 479 00:22:11,910 --> 00:22:13,260 Are you staying? 480 00:22:13,260 --> 00:22:14,560 - [SPEAKER] Yeah. - Yeah. 481 00:22:17,010 --> 00:22:19,680 - [NARRATOR] On the scene, single ladies like Shavonne, 482 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,500 are known as unicorns considered as rare 483 00:22:22,500 --> 00:22:24,990 as the mythical creatures themselves. 484 00:22:24,990 --> 00:22:25,890 - Hi. 485 00:22:25,890 --> 00:22:28,947 - Welcome to Liberty Elite. 486 00:22:28,947 --> 00:22:31,290 - [NARRATOR] Tonight, two have come at once 487 00:22:31,290 --> 00:22:35,673 as 33-year-old single mom and fellow unicorn Malika arrives. 488 00:22:36,660 --> 00:22:39,450 - For years, I was the most prudish person 489 00:22:39,450 --> 00:22:41,700 you could get in the bedroom. 490 00:22:41,700 --> 00:22:43,650 I was a shit fuck. 491 00:22:43,650 --> 00:22:47,283 In the last couple of years, I've been scored quite high. 492 00:22:49,530 --> 00:22:51,180 I don't have a type. 493 00:22:51,180 --> 00:22:52,740 I'm just looking for somebody funny 494 00:22:52,740 --> 00:22:54,968 who I can just have a laugh with. 495 00:22:54,968 --> 00:22:57,718 (romantic music) 496 00:23:00,220 --> 00:23:01,530 - Are you getting in the jacuzzi? 497 00:23:01,530 --> 00:23:03,330 - [NARRATOR] With the party in full swing, 498 00:23:03,330 --> 00:23:05,493 a group has caught Justin and Hannah's eye. 499 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,840 - [HANNAH] Oh, I love the jacuzzi, I do. 500 00:23:10,860 --> 00:23:12,503 - My favorite place in the world. 501 00:23:14,391 --> 00:23:17,333 - [JUSTIN] In an ideal scenario, we'll both end up playing. 502 00:23:17,333 --> 00:23:18,780 - [HANNAH] I'd like to find a single girl 503 00:23:18,780 --> 00:23:21,450 or a nice couple that we can have some fun with. 504 00:23:21,450 --> 00:23:22,920 (group laughs) 505 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,630 - [JUSTIN] To be able to just go wild 506 00:23:24,630 --> 00:23:27,393 is gonna be quite an incredible experience. 507 00:23:28,770 --> 00:23:31,270 - [SPEAKER] Just going up. We'll see you in there. 508 00:23:34,349 --> 00:23:38,941 - Let's go. Come on. 509 00:23:38,941 --> 00:23:40,936 Oh my God, I'm so nervous. 510 00:23:40,936 --> 00:23:43,519 (sultry music) 511 00:23:48,897 --> 00:23:52,230 - [SHAVONNE] Did a couple of blowjobs with some guys 512 00:23:52,230 --> 00:23:53,880 with some serious truncheons. 513 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:54,993 - Oh my God. 514 00:23:58,710 --> 00:24:00,360 - Too big to go in there, 515 00:24:00,360 --> 00:24:01,950 and definitely too big to go in there. 516 00:24:01,950 --> 00:24:02,783 - Oh. 517 00:24:03,630 --> 00:24:06,510 - [CAROLYN] I'll just plump myself down here for a second. 518 00:24:06,510 --> 00:24:08,940 - [NARRATOR] Husband and wife Carolyn and Simon 519 00:24:08,940 --> 00:24:11,460 are on the lookout for a full swap, 520 00:24:11,460 --> 00:24:13,696 sex with another couple. 521 00:24:13,696 --> 00:24:14,529 - [SPEAKER] Are you a couple? 522 00:24:14,529 --> 00:24:17,357 - Yes, yes. We've been 20 years together. 523 00:24:17,357 --> 00:24:20,287 - We are always looking for a girl. 524 00:24:20,287 --> 00:24:21,720 - [CAROLYN] Okay. 525 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,213 - For her interest, for my interest. 526 00:24:25,050 --> 00:24:27,770 - I've identified as bisexual since, oh my God, 527 00:24:28,688 --> 00:24:31,590 for like maybe 22 years now. 528 00:24:31,590 --> 00:24:33,883 And he's happy for me to do what we do. 529 00:24:37,050 --> 00:24:41,790 I like the adrenaline rush, like that thrill of a chase. 530 00:24:41,790 --> 00:24:43,500 You get to flirt with somebody. 531 00:24:43,500 --> 00:24:45,690 You get to feel that chemistry building 532 00:24:45,690 --> 00:24:46,920 that you don't really ever get 533 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,470 to replicate in a long-term relationship. 534 00:24:49,470 --> 00:24:50,520 - [SIMON] What are you guys looking for? 535 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:51,353 What's the deal? 536 00:24:51,353 --> 00:24:54,127 - I think we are more interested in girls 537 00:24:54,127 --> 00:24:57,573 than in couples or men. 538 00:25:00,348 --> 00:25:04,098 (person speaks indistinctly) 539 00:25:05,728 --> 00:25:08,311 (twangy music) 540 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,640 - [HANNAH] Do you want to say yes? 541 00:25:21,532 --> 00:25:22,528 - [] How's it going, guys? 542 00:25:22,528 --> 00:25:24,218 - [HANNAH] I think we're with that group right now. 543 00:25:24,218 --> 00:25:25,297 - [] Yeah, seems to be. 544 00:25:25,297 --> 00:25:26,130 - You don't know? 545 00:25:26,130 --> 00:25:27,840 - I'm still getting to grips with the whole scene. 546 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,280 I feel like if I enjoy it too much, 547 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:30,630 then what's gonna go wrong? 548 00:25:32,606 --> 00:25:36,023 (twangy music continues) 549 00:25:54,570 --> 00:25:57,692 (people chattering and laughing) 550 00:25:57,692 --> 00:26:01,109 (twangy music continues) 551 00:26:08,922 --> 00:26:12,090 (people chattering and laughing) 552 00:26:12,090 --> 00:26:15,363 - [JUSTIN] We'll both be open to the idea of an orgy. 553 00:26:16,787 --> 00:26:17,620 - [HANNAH] The more people the better, 554 00:26:17,620 --> 00:26:20,400 because it would make me feel more sexy. 555 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,553 Just give me more confidence in myself. 556 00:26:31,477 --> 00:26:34,060 (upbeat music) 557 00:26:35,610 --> 00:26:37,500 - [JOHN] Have you got the dips? 558 00:26:37,500 --> 00:26:38,550 - [NARRATOR] It's halfway through 559 00:26:38,550 --> 00:26:41,970 the big Valentine's Day party at Liberty Elite, 560 00:26:41,970 --> 00:26:44,700 and the guests are still for action. 561 00:26:44,700 --> 00:26:47,520 - Ooh, it looks lovely. 562 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:48,583 Olives. 563 00:26:48,583 --> 00:26:50,430 - Yeah. - Okay. 564 00:26:50,430 --> 00:26:53,070 The buffet's out if you're ready. 565 00:26:53,070 --> 00:26:56,487 (upbeat music continues) 566 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:02,580 The key ingredient of a pleasant night at a swingers club 567 00:27:02,580 --> 00:27:06,390 is your ability to socially interact with other people. 568 00:27:06,390 --> 00:27:08,780 - It's a lovely club. - Thank you, thank you. 569 00:27:08,780 --> 00:27:11,010 If you can't socially interact, 570 00:27:11,010 --> 00:27:13,533 you're not going to get a sexual encounter. 571 00:27:14,490 --> 00:27:15,900 You're very attractive, 572 00:27:15,900 --> 00:27:18,690 which might scare the bloody death out of a lot of chaps. 573 00:27:18,690 --> 00:27:21,283 But once you start talking and go, 574 00:27:21,283 --> 00:27:24,377 "Oh, I'm from Norfolk," you become much warmer. 575 00:27:24,377 --> 00:27:25,617 - Oh, thank you. 576 00:27:25,617 --> 00:27:27,570 - [JOHN] I wish I was 40 years younger. 577 00:27:27,570 --> 00:27:30,037 I'm tell you exactly how much of a gem you are. 578 00:27:31,481 --> 00:27:32,940 - Would you like another roll of meat? 579 00:27:32,940 --> 00:27:34,553 - I've got two. I'm fine, thank you. 580 00:27:35,850 --> 00:27:38,114 - [NARRATOR] The buffet isn't the only thing 581 00:27:38,114 --> 00:27:40,157 husband and wife Simon and Carolyn have their eye on. 582 00:27:40,157 --> 00:27:43,440 - What's the best scenario for you? 583 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:44,730 - [SIMON] You love playing with the ladies. 584 00:27:44,730 --> 00:27:45,563 - Yeah. 585 00:27:45,563 --> 00:27:47,010 - [SIMON] I love playing with the ladies. 586 00:27:47,010 --> 00:27:47,940 You love playing with the men. 587 00:27:47,940 --> 00:27:50,043 That's our ideal situation. 588 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,630 So let's see what's going on there. 589 00:27:54,315 --> 00:27:57,073 - We could have a little poke around soon. (laughs) 590 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,480 - It's a common question. 591 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:05,480 How can you love somebody and yet be on the swingers scene? 592 00:28:05,580 --> 00:28:10,200 Lots of people that would never dream of being unfaithful, 593 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,240 however, they do quite like 594 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,063 the occasional different sexual partner. 595 00:28:16,170 --> 00:28:17,850 - [PRODUCER] What does love mean then? 596 00:28:17,850 --> 00:28:20,132 - I have no idea. 597 00:28:20,132 --> 00:28:22,715 (sultry music) 598 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:28,470 - [NARRATOR] Some nights a club provides 599 00:28:28,470 --> 00:28:30,390 a variety of fetish contraptions 600 00:28:30,390 --> 00:28:33,188 for guests on the kinkier side to enjoy. 601 00:28:33,188 --> 00:28:34,680 (whip spanks) 602 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:35,583 - It feels nice. 603 00:28:39,990 --> 00:28:41,970 - I'll give anything a go once, twice, 604 00:28:41,970 --> 00:28:42,803 just in case. 605 00:28:42,803 --> 00:28:43,636 You never know. 606 00:28:44,784 --> 00:28:47,310 (tassel slaps) 607 00:28:47,310 --> 00:28:49,767 Swinging is now a big part of my life 608 00:28:49,767 --> 00:28:52,380 and it took me in a completely different direction 609 00:28:52,380 --> 00:28:54,153 that I never thought I'd go down. 610 00:28:55,301 --> 00:28:57,801 (funky music) 611 00:29:02,610 --> 00:29:04,443 Six months ago, my heart was broken. 612 00:29:06,086 --> 00:29:07,830 Me and my ex-partner planned this holiday, 613 00:29:07,830 --> 00:29:09,333 but the relationship broke up. 614 00:29:10,380 --> 00:29:12,300 I decided I'm going on my own anyway. 615 00:29:12,300 --> 00:29:14,490 I'm gonna make the most of it. 616 00:29:14,490 --> 00:29:17,070 I stumbled across this swinging site 617 00:29:17,070 --> 00:29:20,040 while looking through dating apps. 618 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,920 There was one section for Gran Canaria. 619 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,443 I had the best holiday I've ever had. 620 00:29:27,990 --> 00:29:30,303 I had sex around 15 times. 621 00:29:32,580 --> 00:29:34,893 Five different women in six days. 622 00:29:36,571 --> 00:29:39,904 (funky music continues) 623 00:29:41,190 --> 00:29:42,273 Nice and fresh. 624 00:29:45,060 --> 00:29:47,520 - [NARRATOR] 34-year-old divorcee Martyn 625 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,280 has suffered two major breakups in four years. 626 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:51,300 - [TY] Hey, Son, you all right? 627 00:29:51,300 --> 00:29:52,140 - [MARTYN] Yeah, you? 628 00:29:52,140 --> 00:29:54,390 - [NARRATOR] And lives at home with dad Ty 629 00:29:54,390 --> 00:29:57,003 who split with Martyn's mum 12 years ago. 630 00:29:58,980 --> 00:30:00,960 - When my most recent relationship ended, 631 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,523 it did hit me very hard. 632 00:30:03,390 --> 00:30:04,953 I was broken for a little bit. 633 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,410 It hurt. 634 00:30:07,410 --> 00:30:08,960 I am definitely done with love. 635 00:30:09,990 --> 00:30:14,160 Right now, I'm about going out, having fun, 636 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,663 and making the most of it. 637 00:30:18,810 --> 00:30:19,643 Yeah, you? 638 00:30:19,643 --> 00:30:20,476 - [TY] Good to be home. 639 00:30:20,476 --> 00:30:21,720 - Oh, I bet. 640 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,400 - [NARRATOR] Despite only recently finding out 641 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,410 about Martyn's new lifestyle, 642 00:30:25,410 --> 00:30:27,303 Ty has been fully behind him. 643 00:30:28,410 --> 00:30:31,140 - I have had my heart broken enough times. 644 00:30:31,140 --> 00:30:32,850 - And you could see that. 645 00:30:32,850 --> 00:30:34,680 You have pretty much jumped 646 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,920 from one relationship to another to another. 647 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,590 And I don't think you've probably ever had 648 00:30:40,590 --> 00:30:42,120 that just time with you 649 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,660 and understanding what it is you want from a relationship. 650 00:30:45,660 --> 00:30:47,940 Yun and I had you very young, 651 00:30:47,940 --> 00:30:50,497 and you do look back sometimes and go, 652 00:30:50,497 --> 00:30:54,420 "Well, when was life ever about me as an individual?" 653 00:30:54,420 --> 00:30:55,800 So I think it really is important 654 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:56,817 that you take the direction. 655 00:30:56,817 --> 00:30:58,443 And whatever that direction is, 656 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,343 all I can say is I'm there to support that. 657 00:31:04,884 --> 00:31:07,634 (exciting music) 658 00:31:09,390 --> 00:31:11,070 - If you'd have asked me six months ago 659 00:31:11,070 --> 00:31:12,750 if I'd have preferred someone to love 660 00:31:12,750 --> 00:31:14,520 or someone to give me great sex, 661 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,842 I'd have said somebody to love. 662 00:31:16,842 --> 00:31:17,847 I'll come and join you. 663 00:31:17,847 --> 00:31:19,800 - Hi, join our little party. 664 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,830 - [MARTYN] But currently, good sex. 665 00:31:22,830 --> 00:31:24,150 - Have you been here before? 666 00:31:24,150 --> 00:31:25,800 - No, this is the first time I've ever been here. 667 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,140 It was not something I kind of thought about to be fair 668 00:31:28,140 --> 00:31:30,030 until six months ago. 669 00:31:30,030 --> 00:31:31,700 - My first experience would have been 670 00:31:31,700 --> 00:31:35,302 about five, six months ago too, so. 671 00:31:35,302 --> 00:31:36,484 - So what brought you into it? 672 00:31:36,484 --> 00:31:39,500 - [MALIKA] Well, I'm single and got needs. 673 00:31:39,500 --> 00:31:41,880 - It's gotta be by choice surely that you're single. 674 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:42,713 - Yeah. 675 00:31:45,752 --> 00:31:46,585 - The thing is, 676 00:31:46,585 --> 00:31:48,990 it's hard to make friends when you get older, 677 00:31:48,990 --> 00:31:50,395 unless it's through work. 678 00:31:50,395 --> 00:31:51,304 - It's just the bloody dating act. 679 00:31:51,304 --> 00:31:52,680 And I'm quite old fashioned. 680 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,510 I like just going in a room 681 00:31:54,510 --> 00:31:58,530 with no distractions and just talking. 682 00:31:58,530 --> 00:32:00,319 - [MARTYN] Got to visit the little boy's room. 683 00:32:00,319 --> 00:32:02,550 - Oh, I was gonna say, I need the toilet as well. 684 00:32:02,550 --> 00:32:04,541 Okay, we'll be back in a sec. 685 00:32:04,541 --> 00:32:07,124 (bouncy music) 686 00:32:11,430 --> 00:32:12,513 He is attractive. 687 00:32:14,100 --> 00:32:16,663 He's fuckable. (laughs) 688 00:32:18,690 --> 00:32:20,040 - She's beautiful. 689 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,493 - Once we've sat and had a drink, 690 00:32:21,493 --> 00:32:23,310 we're gonna go and sit in the hot tub. 691 00:32:23,310 --> 00:32:26,910 - Single ladies that don't want the commitment, 692 00:32:26,910 --> 00:32:30,390 they can get what they need and leave safely. 693 00:32:30,390 --> 00:32:34,053 They socialize, they have a drink, they get fed, 694 00:32:34,890 --> 00:32:36,513 and then they get pleasure. 695 00:32:38,010 --> 00:32:39,630 - [NARRATOR] Malika has been single 696 00:32:39,630 --> 00:32:42,153 since a 10-year-long relationship ended. 697 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,683 - I was just young and dumb then. 698 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:52,050 It changed me, lowered my confidence. 699 00:32:52,050 --> 00:32:54,750 I wouldn't tolerate behavior like that from a man now. 700 00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,920 - [PRODUCER] Would you like to be loved? 701 00:32:58,920 --> 00:32:59,753 - No. 702 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:06,660 I just don't feel like I have to be loved 703 00:33:06,660 --> 00:33:08,580 and I need somebody to love me 704 00:33:08,580 --> 00:33:10,200 and I need somebody to want me. 705 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:11,280 I'm not seeking that. 706 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:12,483 I don't need it. 707 00:33:14,266 --> 00:33:15,775 - [PRODUCER] Would you like a boyfriend? 708 00:33:15,775 --> 00:33:19,590 - No, I don't want a boyfriend. 709 00:33:19,590 --> 00:33:22,557 I don't want a husband. 710 00:33:22,557 --> 00:33:24,157 What do I want one of those for? 711 00:33:25,292 --> 00:33:28,209 (passionate music) 712 00:33:30,300 --> 00:33:32,730 - Oh, two fluffy towels. 713 00:33:32,730 --> 00:33:35,220 - Oh wow, look at them underneath there. 714 00:33:35,220 --> 00:33:36,540 - [SHAVONNE] My Valentine's outfit. 715 00:33:36,540 --> 00:33:38,640 - [MALIKA] Oh yeah, lady in red. 716 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:42,030 - [NARRATOR] 67-year-old Shavonne hasn't got lucky so far, 717 00:33:42,030 --> 00:33:43,410 but that doesn't stop her slipping 718 00:33:43,410 --> 00:33:45,633 into something a little more comfortable. 719 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,040 - [SHAVONNE] So you're from Norwich? 720 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:50,940 - Norfolk. 721 00:33:50,940 --> 00:33:53,589 - [SHAVONNE] Yes, that's where my sisters live, in Norfolk. 722 00:33:53,589 --> 00:33:54,638 - [MALIKA] Do you go up sometimes? 723 00:33:54,638 --> 00:33:55,471 - No, because we don't talk. 724 00:33:55,471 --> 00:33:57,300 - [MALIKA] Oh, okay. Fair enough. 725 00:33:57,300 --> 00:33:59,310 - They don't understand my lifestyle. 726 00:33:59,310 --> 00:34:02,750 Florist by day, porn star by night. 727 00:34:02,750 --> 00:34:04,667 - [MALIKA] I love that. 728 00:34:07,917 --> 00:34:11,074 (bouncy music) 729 00:34:11,074 --> 00:34:14,407 - Sorry, I'll just jump in the deep end. 730 00:34:17,784 --> 00:34:20,384 We've measured it. It's bigger than a wine bottle. 731 00:34:20,384 --> 00:34:21,710 - [JUSTIN] We've tried a wine bottle. 732 00:34:21,710 --> 00:34:22,930 - Yeah, I got the head in. 733 00:34:22,930 --> 00:34:25,064 I'm still working on the rest. 734 00:34:25,064 --> 00:34:27,647 (sultry music) 735 00:34:30,238 --> 00:34:31,577 Redhead that we've been talking to, 736 00:34:31,577 --> 00:34:33,423 she quite catches my fancy. 737 00:34:33,423 --> 00:34:36,127 And her partner, they're quite sexy. 738 00:34:36,127 --> 00:34:39,544 (sultry music continues) 739 00:34:41,912 --> 00:34:43,144 - [MARTYN] Here she is. 740 00:34:43,144 --> 00:34:45,760 (Shavonne speaks indistinctly) 741 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:46,957 - Sorry, I'm Martyn. 742 00:34:46,957 --> 00:34:49,658 - Hello, Martyn, Nice to meet you. 743 00:34:49,658 --> 00:34:51,175 - Nice to meet you too. 744 00:34:51,175 --> 00:34:52,310 - You smell lovely. 745 00:34:52,310 --> 00:34:53,143 - [MARTYN] Thank you very much. 746 00:34:53,143 --> 00:34:54,038 Mont Blanc. 747 00:34:54,038 --> 00:34:55,320 - I shall bear that in mind. 748 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,683 (Martyn laughs) 749 00:34:57,683 --> 00:34:58,516 - Yeah, jump in the hot tub? 750 00:34:58,516 --> 00:34:59,660 - [MALIKA] Jump in the hot tub, I think. 751 00:34:59,660 --> 00:35:00,680 - Yeah, okay, we're going through. 752 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:01,513 - Right. 753 00:35:03,209 --> 00:35:06,520 These two, they're lovely, sexy-like. 754 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:07,798 She's gorgeous. 755 00:35:07,798 --> 00:35:08,881 Who wouldn't? 756 00:35:11,220 --> 00:35:12,690 I think they'd just go off together, 757 00:35:12,690 --> 00:35:15,363 but they want me to join them. 758 00:35:16,290 --> 00:35:17,940 That's how it happens, isn't it? 759 00:35:17,940 --> 00:35:18,890 Get a bit friendly. 760 00:35:20,340 --> 00:35:21,690 All innocent, harmless fun. 761 00:35:23,217 --> 00:35:25,800 (bouncy music) 762 00:35:35,138 --> 00:35:36,150 - [NARRATOR] With a couple of hours to go 763 00:35:36,150 --> 00:35:40,377 until closing time, the playroom begins to fill. 764 00:35:40,377 --> 00:35:43,794 (bouncy music continues) 765 00:36:00,059 --> 00:36:03,976 (Justin and Hannah chattering) 766 00:36:14,917 --> 00:36:17,084 - I just, I wanna go home. 767 00:36:21,241 --> 00:36:26,241 (people chattering) (bouncy music) 768 00:36:41,507 --> 00:36:43,097 This was gonna be so different, 769 00:36:43,097 --> 00:36:45,514 but nobody actually wants me. 770 00:36:55,911 --> 00:36:56,823 It's the same thing. 771 00:36:56,823 --> 00:36:58,290 I don't even know why I'm bisexual, 772 00:36:58,290 --> 00:37:01,670 because no woman actually wants me. 773 00:37:01,670 --> 00:37:04,253 (gentle music) 774 00:37:06,194 --> 00:37:07,800 - When we have a bad experience, 775 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,770 it really does lower my self-esteem. 776 00:37:10,770 --> 00:37:12,393 It makes you think you're not attractive 777 00:37:12,393 --> 00:37:14,943 or you're not what they're looking for. 778 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:22,170 - People shouldn't come here expecting to get action, 779 00:37:22,170 --> 00:37:23,670 because then you just get disappointed 780 00:37:23,670 --> 00:37:24,843 if it doesn't happen. 781 00:37:28,351 --> 00:37:30,934 (sultry music) 782 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,619 - Oh look, we have a little threesome. 783 00:37:34,619 --> 00:37:37,202 (group laughs) 784 00:37:40,740 --> 00:37:42,172 - What happened with you? 785 00:37:42,172 --> 00:37:44,683 Because you said, oh, my family didn't get me and my life. 786 00:37:44,683 --> 00:37:45,890 And then you went from that to- 787 00:37:45,890 --> 00:37:46,825 - I was brought up a Catholic. 788 00:37:46,825 --> 00:37:47,658 - [MARTYN] Right. 789 00:37:47,658 --> 00:37:48,491 - And then I was a bit rebellious, 790 00:37:48,491 --> 00:37:49,770 and then I met these Christians 791 00:37:49,770 --> 00:37:51,897 and got really heavily into it. 792 00:37:51,897 --> 00:37:54,120 And you couldn't have sex outside of marriage. 793 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,034 - [MALIKA] So you don't go to church anymore then? 794 00:37:56,034 --> 00:37:58,380 - No, basically I had a load of shit in my life 795 00:37:58,380 --> 00:37:59,451 from when I was young. 796 00:37:59,451 --> 00:38:00,284 - Oh. 797 00:38:00,284 --> 00:38:02,701 - [SHAVONNE] You know? - Yeah. 798 00:38:05,366 --> 00:38:08,616 - [PRODUCER] Have you always liked sex? 799 00:38:09,565 --> 00:38:11,110 - No, basically. 800 00:38:11,110 --> 00:38:14,277 (contemplative music) 801 00:38:16,140 --> 00:38:19,743 I don't think I did like sex until I was 57. 802 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,620 Being gang raped when I was 17 really didn't help. 803 00:38:32,580 --> 00:38:34,770 Got in with the wrong crowd. 804 00:38:34,770 --> 00:38:36,020 There were seven of them. 805 00:38:37,860 --> 00:38:40,890 They would take one of us into the wood 806 00:38:40,890 --> 00:38:44,943 and basically all rape us one by one. 807 00:38:46,500 --> 00:38:47,670 And then you'd go back, 808 00:38:47,670 --> 00:38:50,633 and then they'd take the next girl and do the same with her. 809 00:38:54,300 --> 00:38:55,890 And you could fight and scream as much as you want, 810 00:38:55,890 --> 00:38:56,723 but you're in a wood. 811 00:38:56,723 --> 00:38:57,556 Nobody could hear. 812 00:38:58,740 --> 00:39:02,210 So there wasn't a lot you could do with it. 813 00:39:02,210 --> 00:39:04,350 It just screws you up really. 814 00:39:04,350 --> 00:39:05,793 You learn not to trust men. 815 00:39:07,770 --> 00:39:08,940 You have all those feelings 816 00:39:08,940 --> 00:39:10,980 that you had when it was happening. 817 00:39:10,980 --> 00:39:13,833 Anger, fear, pain. 818 00:39:15,270 --> 00:39:16,103 All of those. 819 00:39:16,103 --> 00:39:18,183 And they stay with you, you know? 820 00:39:20,790 --> 00:39:22,440 I became a Christian. 821 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,660 I joined a local church. 822 00:39:24,660 --> 00:39:26,647 I didn't have sex for 40 years. 823 00:39:28,620 --> 00:39:32,310 I prayed, you know, "Please, Dear God, help me with this." 824 00:39:32,310 --> 00:39:33,930 And there was nothing. 825 00:39:33,930 --> 00:39:35,670 And I got to the point when I thought, 826 00:39:35,670 --> 00:39:36,750 I don't even know if there's a God, 827 00:39:36,750 --> 00:39:39,273 and if there is, he don't give a shit about me. 828 00:39:44,940 --> 00:39:46,770 - [MARTYN] Right, let's just get naked 829 00:39:46,770 --> 00:39:47,736 and get in the hot tub. 830 00:39:47,736 --> 00:39:49,236 - [SHAVONNE] Okay. 831 00:39:52,594 --> 00:39:55,344 (relaxing music) 832 00:39:57,930 --> 00:40:01,080 - Swinging, I have to say, is very empowering. 833 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,020 Now I am in control of my life 834 00:40:04,020 --> 00:40:06,213 and swinging is part of that life. 835 00:40:07,290 --> 00:40:12,290 The main thing is being in control of my sex life. 836 00:40:12,420 --> 00:40:16,710 I know that I can say no to something and accept that. 837 00:40:16,710 --> 00:40:19,950 I can tell them to fuck off and they'll fuck off. 838 00:40:19,950 --> 00:40:20,783 - [MARTYN] Do you trust men? 839 00:40:20,783 --> 00:40:22,230 - [SHAVONNE] Yeah, I do now. 840 00:40:22,230 --> 00:40:24,240 If you didn't trust men, you wouldn't do it. 841 00:40:24,240 --> 00:40:25,690 But it has to be on my terms. 842 00:40:27,180 --> 00:40:29,940 I'm happier than I have ever been. 843 00:40:29,940 --> 00:40:31,860 I'm just slightly disappointed 844 00:40:31,860 --> 00:40:34,143 I had to wait so long to find the happiness. 845 00:40:35,577 --> 00:40:38,327 (peaceful music) 846 00:40:48,051 --> 00:40:50,468 (rock music) 847 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,457 - [SIMON] These ladies look nice over there. 848 00:40:55,457 --> 00:40:58,220 - [CAROLYN] Yeah. 849 00:40:58,220 --> 00:40:59,400 - [NARRATOR] At Liberty Elite, 850 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,220 there's just an hour to go before closing time 851 00:41:02,220 --> 00:41:04,213 and the playroom is hotting up. 852 00:41:09,690 --> 00:41:13,690 (group laughing and chattering) 853 00:41:16,919 --> 00:41:18,960 - When you first go onto the scene, 854 00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:20,943 you may decide it isn't for you, 855 00:41:21,870 --> 00:41:23,310 but for a lot of people, 856 00:41:23,310 --> 00:41:25,860 it becomes a much bigger way of life 857 00:41:25,860 --> 00:41:27,777 than they could imagine. 858 00:41:36,794 --> 00:41:38,406 - [MARTYN] You're a very beautiful woman. 859 00:41:38,406 --> 00:41:41,225 - [MALIKA] So if I invited you up, would you? 860 00:41:41,225 --> 00:41:42,387 - Without a doubt. 861 00:41:42,387 --> 00:41:45,383 - [MALIKA] I'm not gonna say no to that. 862 00:41:45,383 --> 00:41:48,133 (exciting music) 863 00:41:55,533 --> 00:41:57,033 - I wanna join in. 864 00:41:58,121 --> 00:42:00,177 The thing is, I have to sort of be comfortable 865 00:42:00,177 --> 00:42:01,899 that they want me there. 866 00:42:01,899 --> 00:42:04,619 - [JUSTIN] We're both quiet people, aren't we? 867 00:42:04,619 --> 00:42:05,452 - I'm just hoping 868 00:42:05,452 --> 00:42:07,838 that it might have made us a bit more confident. 869 00:42:07,838 --> 00:42:10,989 I think I've done really well wearing what I'm wearing now. 870 00:42:10,989 --> 00:42:11,822 - Yeah. 871 00:42:13,971 --> 00:42:16,505 - [HANNAH] That bed's not big enough for six people. 872 00:42:16,505 --> 00:42:19,088 (bouncy music) 873 00:42:31,718 --> 00:42:35,135 (bouncy music continues) 874 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:50,670 - I don't expect to get any action tonight. 875 00:42:50,670 --> 00:42:53,467 Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. 876 00:42:53,467 --> 00:42:54,390 You know? 877 00:42:54,390 --> 00:42:56,430 You can't force these things. 878 00:42:56,430 --> 00:42:59,040 But the important thing is that you just have fun. 879 00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,530 And if you can connect with people in whatever way, 880 00:43:01,530 --> 00:43:03,015 it's good. 881 00:43:03,015 --> 00:43:06,090 (bouncy music continues) 882 00:43:06,090 --> 00:43:08,070 I haven't even done a blowjob. 883 00:43:08,070 --> 00:43:08,903 I'm slipping. 884 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:13,673 - [SPEAKER] Do you wanna put your head in? 885 00:43:13,673 --> 00:43:15,455 - Yeah. We'll just have a little wander. 886 00:43:15,455 --> 00:43:16,980 - Let's go have a look. - See what's going on. 887 00:43:16,980 --> 00:43:18,690 - [NARRATOR] Having spent all night in the bar, 888 00:43:18,690 --> 00:43:22,414 Simon and Carolyn decide to find out what they're missing. 889 00:43:22,414 --> 00:43:25,164 (exciting music) 890 00:43:28,260 --> 00:43:29,093 - [CAROLYN] Wanna go out again? 891 00:43:29,093 --> 00:43:30,000 - Yeah. 892 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:31,493 - It's too hot already for him. 893 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,273 - [SIMON] Would you like a night cap dear? 894 00:43:35,273 --> 00:43:37,320 - [CAROLYN] There's probably only one element 895 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,549 of our relationship that would appeal. 896 00:43:39,549 --> 00:43:41,589 - I think you saw her and was like, "Ooh, I like this." 897 00:43:41,589 --> 00:43:43,370 - I did. - Yeah, I could've. 898 00:43:43,370 --> 00:43:45,630 - But they're not so much the other side. 899 00:43:45,630 --> 00:43:46,463 - [SIMON] Yeah. 900 00:43:46,463 --> 00:43:48,030 - And you shouldn't ever settle for something 901 00:43:48,030 --> 00:43:49,620 that's just because you're in an environment 902 00:43:49,620 --> 00:43:50,620 which promotes that. 903 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,300 - [HANNAH] Having sex with other people 904 00:43:57,300 --> 00:43:58,813 doing the same thing turned me on. 905 00:43:58,813 --> 00:43:59,737 I don't know about you. 906 00:43:59,737 --> 00:44:01,389 - Yeah, it helps I've got 907 00:44:01,389 --> 00:44:03,389 such an amazingly attractive woman here. 908 00:44:05,670 --> 00:44:06,763 - If you say so. 909 00:44:06,763 --> 00:44:07,596 - I do say so. 910 00:44:07,596 --> 00:44:09,510 - Okay. (laughs) 911 00:44:09,510 --> 00:44:10,360 I'll believe you. 912 00:44:13,530 --> 00:44:17,700 - The thing I like about swinging as such is 913 00:44:17,700 --> 00:44:21,120 it isn't 100% about sex. 914 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,043 It's slightly more than that. 915 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:27,510 It's little relationships all the time. 916 00:44:27,510 --> 00:44:28,983 I think it's rather lovely. 917 00:44:31,046 --> 00:44:33,629 (mellow music) 918 00:44:44,485 --> 00:44:45,420 - [CAROLYN] I imagine it would be amazing 919 00:44:45,420 --> 00:44:47,100 with or without swinging, 920 00:44:47,100 --> 00:44:49,983 but I do feel there's probably lots of benefits. 921 00:44:51,388 --> 00:44:52,221 - Get your tea? 922 00:44:52,221 --> 00:44:53,138 - [CAROLYN] Yeah, I've got my tea. 923 00:44:53,138 --> 00:44:53,971 Okay, come here. - [CAROLYN] I'm happy. 924 00:44:53,971 --> 00:44:55,860 It's kind of like a cherry on top 925 00:44:55,860 --> 00:44:58,260 of an already great relationship. 926 00:44:58,260 --> 00:44:59,820 It makes you fall in love again. 927 00:44:59,820 --> 00:45:01,953 Yeah, it sounds corny, but it really does. 928 00:45:06,090 --> 00:45:07,683 - A bit disheartening. - Yeah. 929 00:45:08,619 --> 00:45:09,720 - I don't think it's put us off though. 930 00:45:09,720 --> 00:45:10,770 - Oh no, definitely not. 931 00:45:10,770 --> 00:45:12,450 Once we get a chance to come to another one, 932 00:45:12,450 --> 00:45:14,040 we're definitely gonna go for it. 933 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,000 Not giving it up. 934 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:15,844 - No, we're not giving up now. 935 00:45:15,844 --> 00:45:17,166 - No, we're not giving up. 936 00:45:17,166 --> 00:45:18,958 - Come here. 937 00:45:18,958 --> 00:45:21,458 (lips smooch) 938 00:45:22,710 --> 00:45:26,127 (mellow music continues) 939 00:45:30,072 --> 00:45:31,063 - [PRODUCER] Good night? 940 00:45:31,063 --> 00:45:31,905 - Yeah. 941 00:45:31,905 --> 00:45:33,450 - Yeah, it was a good night. 942 00:45:33,450 --> 00:45:35,430 - I definitely wanna fuck him again. 943 00:45:35,430 --> 00:45:37,020 One night wasn't enough for me. 944 00:45:37,020 --> 00:45:38,400 He was awesome. 945 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,710 - And she was also equally as awesome. 946 00:45:40,710 --> 00:45:42,604 - He's cute, isn't he? 947 00:45:42,604 --> 00:45:44,944 (Martyn chuckles) 948 00:45:44,944 --> 00:45:47,527 (mellow music) 949 00:45:49,470 --> 00:45:53,973 - [MARTYN] Deep down, I would like somebody to come home to. 950 00:45:55,020 --> 00:45:58,140 I just can't go through another breakup. 951 00:45:58,140 --> 00:45:59,583 It just hurts too much. 952 00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:05,160 - [MALIKA] I like to have my fun 953 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:08,733 when there's no strings, no emotions, all that crap. 954 00:46:09,750 --> 00:46:12,513 I catch flights, not feelings. 955 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,220 - [PRODUCER] Does an experience like that 956 00:46:20,220 --> 00:46:21,840 put you off the world of swinging? 957 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:22,673 - No. 958 00:46:23,790 --> 00:46:25,473 Sex is very important. 959 00:46:26,310 --> 00:46:28,530 If I had it my way, on my gravestone, 960 00:46:28,530 --> 00:46:31,743 I would have, "She shagged until the very end. 961 00:46:32,730 --> 00:46:33,747 Good for her." 962 00:46:34,845 --> 00:46:37,928 (upbeat jazzy music)